A new supply might provide something you can’t, like a house, a desirable location, or even a green card. Overseas narcissists, in particular, may love-bomb you to gain access to your country’s benefits, only to discard you once their goal is achieved. Always be cautious of those who seem overly eager too soon.
10. Devaluation and Black-and-White Thinking
After the love-bombing phase, narcissists enter the devaluation stage. They start nitpicking your flaws, your clothes, your habits, or even your parenting. Their black-and-white thinking labels you as “all bad” once they spot imperfections. They then idealize a new supply, believing they’re flawless until the cycle repeats.
Narcissists chase the next best thing, driven by their need for excitement, control, and validation. If they leave you, consider it a gift. You deserve someone who values you for who you are, flaws and all, not someone who discards you when you show you’re human. Let them play their games elsewhere. Not today, Satan!
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